That not wanted by the woman?

Female sexuality - the tool thin. Sometimes he "is upset", and then any fears and prejudices start to hide our sensuality.

Happens so - the man comes to the doctor and starts to complain that the wife фригидна, never wants, even simply escapes. The wife comes to the doctor, and here is found out that it at all frigid (frigid women do not happen). Simply she is afraid... Intimate relations. According to sexologists, such fears poison an intimate life almost to every third (!) woman.

1: one of the most widespread female fears - prospect to make love by the light of. The woman frightens that the man will see all lacks of its body. A cellulitis, the drooped stomach and a breast after feeding of the child, stale linen, a bad pedicure. The greatest error consists that women start to apologise for it. And men - beings trustful, to it ten times you will tell that you ugly, they and will believe, will go to search for another, assured of the irresistibility.
What to do: first of all it is necessary to understand that if the man has laid down with you in bed it to spit on your drooped tummy. He considers you attractive and sexual. Simply suggest it to switch off bright light, and to include a red night lamp, to light candles. In blinking of candles your body will be beautiful and shining.

2: some women even in bed think of that, as though not to become pregnant. Even if the woman will take advantage of all contraceptives at once, it all time will distract, and after affinity will run in a bathroom to make syringing. Experts consider that here has put not so much in fear before pregnancy, how many before sorts.
What to do: to look at others - many women give birth also to two and three children. Perhaps not so all and is terrible. The brain of the woman is arranged so that she quickly forgets all terrible that was at the time of delivery, and remembers only pleasure from a birth of the child (itself has tested). Some sessions at the psychologist will relieve you of this fear.

3: many women are anxious by that, as though not to strike in a bedroom in a dirt the person. If the partner asks to be more cautious, not to press too strongly the woman there and then will decide that it the bad mistress, absolutely useless. If he runs in a shower, only to be washed from a female smell. If falls asleep, because it the animal, and anything except sex is not necessary to it. So complexes are born. Both ugly I, and silly, and the mistress useless.
What to do: all problem in your low self-estimation. Try to argue on the contrary: the husband has gone after sex at once to a shower, he wants, that from it pleasantly smelt. If has fallen asleep, to it it was very good, it has completely relaxed. Remember: the self-trust raises, and uncertainty - pushes away.

4: some women feel painful sensations. Sometimes it happens from the valid diseases - inflammations of appendages and-or adhesive process. Or not enough time has passed after the delivery. But also healthy women have such problems. More often it occurs, when the partner operates too energetically. Or because of incompatibility of physical aspects. For example, if a man's member very big.
What to do: if it is caused by illness an exit one - to be treated. If "wildness" of the husband tell to it that such impulse of passion flatters you, but your body requires and a tenderness droplet.

5: sometimes there are processes which are not pleasant to the woman. Much do not like oral sex. Someone finds its unhygienic, someone does not like taste and a sperm smell. Other ladies shock "indecent" things, for example, sex in critical days.
What to do: any sexopathologist to you will tell - that occurs in bed - always "decently" but (!) if it want both partners.

6: as show sociological interrogations, the fear to be "caught" torments not only young, but also "deeply married" people. After all many of them live with children and parents in small apartments, where simply tremendous audibility. How here to relax, if behind a door the mother-in-law goes or the child coughs? Yes, of course, many are raised by risk to be застуканными, but not the relatives, or, is even worse - children.
What to do: first of all - a latch on a door that at midpoint to you the sonny or the daughter who has decided has not rushed that with mum and the daddy to sleep much more conveniently, than without them. Include the TV or music for creation of a necessary noise background. Only be not overzealous, and that will be are seen not only relatives, but also the neighbours, wishing to lay down to sleep.

As a last resort, it is possible to go safely to a bathroom under a pretext to wash daddy back … Is possible to relax and it is more extreme, for example, in park or in wood. It is possible to remove a hotel accommodation. Yes, expensively, but sometimes it is possible to indulge and arrange itself romantic conditions.

Expensive girls and women, be self-assured. If something torments you or it is not pleasant - be not afraid to tell about it to the partner. And then you, at last, will be happy with the sexual life. Remember: you are favourite, desired, beautiful and attractive. Happiness to you!
Expensive men, be more attentive with your significant others. Despite seeming independence, all of us remain the same fragile, soft young ladies!

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